I've been struggling with event photography, specifically how best to take photos without flash in a darkened room and somewhat okay stage lighting. I've tried Googling various combinations of keywords such as, "Tutorial Primer Photography Low Light Event," and haven't yet hit the sort of help a total newbie needs. Any suggestions for online resources?

Also, any recommendations on monopods? Christmas & birthday time is coming up and I need to put the toys I want on there so that I don't end up with a fifth copy of "Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band."