I can how that would be frustrating for you! I have no way to compare that as I said-they don't have lj's. I have tried to get a few interested to no avail. I am not into slash alot-but if it's well written I enjoy it as much as the next ;-) I guess to me it doesn't make a difference because I've always gone by the creedo-I like myself-take me as I am. LOL! If not? Well, there's the door! My friends are all pretty cool with my likes and dislikes-so that's all I can ask really ;-) And if the story is well written-why not enjoy it? Some of the het stories are pretty craptastic too! And as far as your posting-it's how you feel at the time right? I know some who have 2 ljs for this-and if it works for them so be it. I just figure I have enough trouble keeping the first one up-lmao. I enjoy your posts-so no worries here!
And yeah. I think that has a lot to do with it. Funerals are pretty unplanned-fortunately my job is flexible enough that if I need the extra day they can give it to me. And it really pays to take the day! As you said-it's more healthy this way around.
*Hugs*!!!!