Oooookay, more with the weirdness in common. I get the "intimidating" rap, too. But I'm strong and I don't take crap from people, so in our society, that probably is a terrifying thing for most men to come across (sadly).

How awesome about your cousin! I always wanted to be a pilot. Still plan on taking lessons someday when I find several thousand in the couch cushions. :-D

And VACATION! Party on, dude!